Am I trying hard enough to make myself worthy? They say you learn a lot at your lowest, and isn’t this my lowest? Each day feels like I wake up, dig a deeper hole for myself, and at night, I lay down in it with ‘unanswered’ wishes. Many young people often experience this feeling; they feel lost because of the lack of opportunities. When a child is born, the struggle of his life begin on the first day of his school. Some people are good at handling life’s uncertain situations, they make good decisions and make their lives easier. On the other hand, those who endure life’s hardships without sympathy face the ‘darkest phase’ of their lives, and might be throughout their lives, they try to make things less difficult. In the race to make lives less difficult, some people give up, and they end up whipping out their mild weights, departing from this world. Concurrently, the remaining ones keep going on their unending struggles.
In the early years of a child’s life, every individual had dreams about protecting the world by becoming a superhero. Where is that superhero now? In adulthood, we realize life’s reality a little more, and we transform our dreams to having a peaceful life. Peace has diverse definitions for every individual. For some, peace means having a small house nearby a fresh water pond covered with stunning greenery. For others, peace is having a splendid villa in a beautiful corner of the world and having uncountable wealth to fulfil ‘every’ dream. Additionally, there are some people who seek peace in a person; they just want someone to love or to be loved by someone, among many more meanings of peace. In the transition of dreams, we pass through a lot of life’s phases.
By the passage of time, we explore ourselves, more and more. But the more we understand life the more we regret living. Everyone wants to be the ‘main’ character. But there are a number of people who are happy by becoming a side character. People like these just don’t want to be ignored. In the young age when you can do anything, you’re energetic and all. Some youngsters lost their ambitions and hope. When these mental state began to stay with them, they morphs into an idle state. On this stage, nothing inspires them at all, they lose interest in everything. They accept the fact that they are a failure. Nervousness, ‘uselessness’, and constant worry make them a ‘worthless’ person. They no longer want to become an artist, actor, musician, scientist, painter, doctor, and etc. So, they merely gave up on their dreams. Unexpectedly, they transform into a person they didn’t wish to become. At this point, most people stop living their lives.
We all human beings have to understand, especially those lost souls who think their lives should have been picture-perfect deprived of sorrows, we are not here to drag out all the sufferings from our life. Living life with setbacks is part of it. We are using our energy to win the game from the wrong approach. We have to enjoy the sufferings in the game of life. Those people who go silent while battling with their own selves, are not tired of telling the half of your stories? Why do you hide emotions under the layer of a cheerful smile? We should try to share our genuine emotions with our loved ones. It would also be fine, if they don’t want to listen our story. At this moment, we are aware of that how important is to pay attention to someone, so now we can be a good listener and listen their story with thoughtfulness and let them be an authentic storyteller.
The humans somehow are the ‘dumbest species’ on the planet earth. Due to the fact that we overthink a lot. We thought about the every single impossible negative aspects of each little thing. These detrimental conceptions about the whole situation lead us astray. We feel that we are not in the right place. Humans are self-centered. So, every human being’s ultimate goal is to be in the right place. We wayward folks are fooling ourselves with our own missteps. We are not going to live on earth for the eternity, we are here for a specific timespan. Often, universe gives us hint that we are on the right lane or wrong path, but we are careless that we unintentionally pay no attention to them. In strive for finding our purpose, we don’t have to lose ourselves. The universe is with us so do mistakes but try not to repeat them and try to learn from them.